My "Financial Freedom" Isn't What You Think
The Truth About Financial Freedom: It’s Not a Get-Rich-Quick Scheme
I’ve had a bit of a pause from posting recently, and there’s a very specific reason for it: I was busy living out my current definition of financial freedom.
For me and my husband, this chapter has been about "geographical flexibility." In the last year, we’ve worked from France, Switzerland, Italy, Scotland, and most recently, New Zealand. But if you’re expecting a video about flashy cars or five-star hotels, you’ve come to the wrong place.
As a former wealth manager, I know that real financial freedom isn't about "having it all"—it's about not feeling trapped. Here is how we actually made it happen.
1. Start with the Dream, Not the Numbers
People often get bogged down in budgeting and compound interest rates before they even know what they are saving for. For us, the dream was adventure and the outdoors. We wanted to see the world without pausing our careers entirely. Defining that goal was the fuel that made the years of saving possible.
2. The "Unsexy" Trade-Offs
Financial freedom is a series of compromises. To afford months of travel, we made very deliberate choices:
The Base: We established a home first to ensure we had a "landing pad" and a potential asset to rent out.
The Spending: We don't have designer wardrobes or high-end furniture. We are big fans of vintage finds and Facebook Marketplace.
The Logistics: In New Zealand, we didn't stay in resorts. We did house sits (looking after furry friends in exchange for a desk and Wi-Fi) and worked 13-hour time differences, sometimes finishing at 2:00 AM to stay connected with UK clients.
3. Shifting the Narrative: It’s Not an End Point
One of the biggest myths is that financial freedom is a "retirement" goal you reach at 65. I prefer to see it as transitory. It’s about moving through periods of "hustle" and periods of "freedom." Maybe for you, it looks like dropping to a four-day work week, or taking a six-month sabbatical, or simply having enough in your "FU Fund" to leave a job that no longer serves you.
How to Calculate Your Freedom Figure
Once the dream is clear, then—and only then—do you look at the figures:
The Minimum: What are your non-negotiables? (Mortgage, bills, pension contributions).
The Fun Pop: What do you need to actually enjoy the freedom? (Hobbies, travel, dining out).
The Pivot: What are you willing to sacrifice now to make that timeline shorter?
Financial freedom is personal. Don't let a "cookie-cutter" Instagram version of success dictate your path. Define your own chapter, embrace the trade-offs, and remember that you can start enjoying small doses of freedom long before you reach the "final" number.
💭 What does your "Freedom Chapter" look like?
Is it a cabin in the woods? A year of slow travel? Or just the ability to say "no" to overtime? I’d love to hear your philosophical takes on money in the comments below.